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Dealing with the ex boyfriend

I have been seeing this girl for about a month now, and she has a very annoying ex. The problem is that they're still "friends", what ever the hell that is supposed to mean. This guy calls her at least 10 times a day, leaves countless voice mails, calls her "babe", and won't leave until he recieves a hug. Now, we aren't technically a couple, we just go out a couple times a week, so I guess he can do what ever he wants to try to get her back. But let me ask this, what exactly am I allowed to do in this situation? Ignore it, yell at him, tell him to f*ck off, or try to get him to take a swing at me then beat him to a bloody pulp?

I pitched this story to a friend of mine, and this was his idea. His idea was to get drunk and beat the hell out of this kid. That way I don't lose face in front of the girl for doing it myself. Any thoughts? And trust me, if you met this kid it would be all you could do to not knock him out. I expect nothing but wise and informend responses from the wealth of knowledge that is SBW.

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Bro, from being in the same situation yrs ago. The best thing that you can do is nothing since your not a couple. You could tell her how you feel about it and make it sappy. Now if you 2 were a couple I say kick his little punk interfering azz bad. Just score her as your girl tell the dude off and hope he leaves. Just remember women like the sappy crap, so make it sound heart felt. That is what worked for me, but to think about it.........I wish I would have let him have her back. Phsycochick.
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hey Tippy, I thought I saw you post some pics of some kid in a Nintendo jacket holding a little black rifle? I'll tellya what we told one of the guys at work that was worried about guys coming over to see his teenage daughter. Clean that thing at the kitchen table when they come over. Could possibly work in this situation too?
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Not unless the dude is like me and is liceansed to carry and conceal a handgun.
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I expect nothing but wise and informend responses from the wealth of knowledge that is SBW.
If your not a couple, but want to be then you need to TELL HER HOW YOU FEEL!. You really dont have a right to beat the shit out of one of her "friends" simply because they annoy you. Once everything is out in the open in reguards to your feelings and hers then and only then can you set guidelines-if they are agreed upon by the two of you only!

If she is simply playing the field and wanting to keep her options open then she isnt for you anyway, and you should drop her ass like third period french.....and then IMMEDIATELY go beat the living shit out of the little cock block!

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IMMEDIATELY go beat the living shit out of the little cock block
John, that's all you needed to say.

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Well, since you're not technically a couple (though do you know what she thinks of how things are going?), you can't get all jealous/posessive, but you can point out that the other guy is.

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I have been seeing this girl for about a month now, and she has a very annoying ex. The problem is that they're still "friends", what ever the hell that is supposed to mean. This guy calls her at least 10 times a day, leaves countless voice mails, calls her "babe", and won't leave until he recieves a hug. Now, we aren't technically a couple, we just go out a couple times a week, so I guess he can do what ever he wants to try to get her back. But let me ask this, what exactly am I allowed to do in this situation? Ignore it, yell at him, tell him to f*ck off, or try to get him to take a swing at me then beat him to a bloody pulp?

I pitched this story to a friend of mine, and this was his idea. His idea was to get drunk and beat the hell out of this kid. That way I don't lose face in front of the girl for doing it myself. Any thoughts? And trust me, if you met this kid it would be all you could do to not knock him out. I expect nothing but wise and informend responses from the wealth of knowledge that is SBW.
That is the hardest question ever. Is she worth it? Does she get off on the situation? Is he a guy that you would have to fuck up 6 times before he catches on? To many variables.
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That is the hardest question ever. Is she worth it? Does she get off on the situation? Is he a guy that you would have to fuck up 6 times before he catches on? To many variables.
very well put, is she worth the agrivation? (most are not)
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get a piece and leave
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