A couple of years ago I came across some links to women's riding clubs. The one in Dallas had some pics from one of their gatherings and those were absolutely outrageous! Many bikes had 'feminine' colored paint jobs, with fluffy/feathery trims of matching colors. I wanted to find those pics recently when my wife was shopping for a bike, but couldn't
Sorry I can't help you with finding what you are looking for, I can just tell you that there are all-women gatherings, if not clubs out there.