This advice is great- let her take her time, build up her confidence again, ride familiar roads, and it'll get better.....Just ler her grow at her own pace- I'm teaching my sister, and she has a "tentative" approach right now, but as she keeps riding, she can only become more confident.
I had a lowside last year, and I had the "spooked" feeling now and then as well. Just gotta get back up and do it again, lather, rinse and repeat....
I'm the guy who rode with Kathy, and occassionally I took off around the curves (they're just irresistable sometimes
) because I knew the road better, but I also had absolutely no problem waiting for her to catch up. (We need to do it again, I promise I'll go slow this time
Anyway, dreamer, just do the same with your girlfriend and it'll be fine when she sees your taking the time to wait for her, and show her the way.